Hey friends!

I hope you’re doing well today. If you’ve been here for a while, you know this blog isn’t just about finding the perfect way to organize a pantry or the best hacks for getting more done. Sure, I love sharing those things—but I also talk about community, connection, and the importance of taking care of yourself emotionally and mentally.

Because here’s the thing: organizing and productivity aren’t just checkboxes on a to-do list. They’re part of something much bigger. To me, productivity and organizing are part of a bigger picture: self-care. It’s all connected. When the mail is sorted, bills get paid. When bills are paid, stress lifts. When stress lifts, our bodies and minds can actually rest and recover. Organization isn’t just about tidy spaces—it’s about creating room for peace.

And when I walk into someone’s home, I’m not just seeing piles of paper or closets that need sorting—I’m seeing people. Real people, often in stressful or vulnerable seasons of life. So when I ask, “Are you okay?”—I mean it. I want to know the real answer. Because I know how easy it is to mask, dismiss, or brush off pain. I’ve even ended organizing sessions early because I could tell what my client needed most wasn’t a decluttered closet—it was the space to feel and focus on being okay.

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That’s why I’ll always remind you that what’s happening inside matters just as much as what’s happening outside. Talking openly about mental health—here, in my stories, in conversation, and in person—matters so much to me. Organizing helps, yes, but sometimes we need more. Sometimes it feels like too much. And that’s okay.

And that’s exactly why I want to pause here and highlight something bigger than all of us. September is Suicide Prevention Month. For me, it’s a reminder of how much our actions, no matter how small, can make a difference in the lives of people who are struggling. You might think, “I’m just one person, what can I do?” But one person can do a lot.

Here are a few ways to show up:

  • Learn the warning signs.
  • Share available resources.
  • Join a walk or local awareness event.
  • Start a conversation with someone you’re worried about.
  • Light a candle, wear a ribbon, or host a small gathering.
  • Promote your company’s employee assistance program.
  • Volunteer with organizations serving vulnerable groups, like veterans.
  • Organize a training at work about suicide prevention.
  • Simply be present and supportive for loved ones and coworkers.

You don’t have to do all of these. Even just one act can ripple farther than you may ever realize.

I know I’ve shared these reminders and resources before, but some things are too important not to repeat:
You matter. You deserve to be here. You deserve peace in your life.

And if someone you love is struggling, please don’t worry about finding the “perfect” words—there’s no magic sentence that makes everything better. What matters most is that you tried.

Resources

If you’d like to learn more or need support, here are some trusted places to start:

If you or someone you know is in crisis, please call or text 988 right away. You can also chat with the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline at 988lifeline.org.

Remember—this is your tribe, your community, too. So reach out. Let me know what’s overwhelming you or holding you back from getting organized or even scheduling time to work together. Let’s work on it – together.

You don’t have to go through things alone.

Sending you extra love today. 💛

💛

Nicole 

Stay tuned for next week’s POP Talk!

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